Hi, Olivia I wasn’t aware that I needed to comment and agree with what was posted. As a reminder, this is the world wide web. Some will agree with you others will disagree. If you cannot believe my comment or don’t want to see it, a private journal would be a better outlet instead of a public post. My goodness the woman made herself a public figure so not really sure what the issue is here.

Thank you to taking my post exactly how it was intended, as an opportunity for me to simply release my emotions. I know what you mean that pregnancy can bring a lot of loneliness and I’ve been told that an infant can do that same. But I hope you’re right and that my circle of trust will stay just as strong and though some things will change, what’s really important will stay strong. Wishing you the best pregnancy and the safest delivery. Continue to pray for clarity and know that it will all work out! That’s how I’ve been approaching it and it’s what’s kept me sane! All the best! Xx

Hi Olivia! Congrats, I hope you’re enjoying every moment of your pregnancy. Thank you so much for reminding me that my feelings + fears are natural. I’m happy to hear that this post made you feel less alone. Xx

I pray that you gain clarity on the things that you may fear as a new mom! Who doesn’t have them! Not even just being a mom but facing any unchartered territory can raise some concerns and genuine fears.

I appreciate your honesty! I am currently pregnant and though it is what I wanted I am truly afraid! It hasn’t been the easiest journey one of which you think should bring people closer together I have felt alot of loneliness! And it raised fears of how the dynamics of having a baby will continue to affect it.

I trust your heart and know that you will do an amazing job as a mother, wife and friend! Yes some things may change but your circle of trust you have created will always be there!

Keep going deep and being honest! I did not find it selfish or offensive for you to share YOUR fears! I always tell my students you are selfish if you don’t because someone else may be suffering in silence and NEED to find someone relatable!

Not all fears are BAD! They also help us to build our character! Keep being honest! Those who needed to receive this message will gain what it was meant to give!

Don’t allow the worldly views to change your views or experiences ! That’s what they want! A bunch of heartless humans! Blessings to you, your new bundle of joy and family!

Thank you so much Meshia for taking the time to share this comment, but also for using SoP as a resource like it was intended for. I so appreciate your kind words and for the reminder that my thoughts + opinions really do help some people. And thanks for reminding me that my fears are normal lol. Wishing you and your family many blessings as you continue to grow together. And have the best time in Charleston for your anniversary! Xx

I’m sorry you took my fears as complaints. This is a space for me to open up and express myself, honestly, with the audience that I’ve built. Personally, I don’t think it’s selfish at all to be afraid of losing connections with people that mean a lot to me. And I don’t think any couple (happy or not) would say that adding such a life-altering dynamic didn’t affect their relationship. My only hope is that we becomes closer because of it! And I am extremely excited about welcoming a son into my world and loving him with everything I have. But I’d be lying if I said I didn’t spend my entire life dreaming of having a little girl. I truly welcome input, advice and thoughts from my audience, but your comment feels more like an attack when all I did was open myself up to be vulnerable… at such a vulnerable transition in my life. Instead of shaming me (or anyone for that matter) try offering love + light! Xx

Your list sounds very selfish. You’re afraid of losing connections with friends, your husband, losing sleep etc. You even had the audacity to say you’ve heard soo many horror stories of coming between marriages. Did you ever think those couples shouldn’t have been married anyway? Perhaps they rushed to marriage and had a kid two days into the marriage. Of course adding a helpless child, which is a major lifetime comment, changes the dynamics but you cannot say with a straight face it was the child who harmed that jacked up relationship to begin with.

You don’t even sound excited that you’re having a boy. On @apinckworld you posted the color palette you wanted versus the palette you got. Maybe your son doesn’t want to be born into this ungratefulness either!

Shame on you.